Wow! I can't believe it has been another fairly enjoyable weekend! My parents have come back from New Mexico and having them here tends to make things a little easier. They came over Friday afternoon and played with the boys while I took it easy and got to watch some tennis. The boys were very happy to have them back, especially as they had brought gifts!
On Saturday I treated myself to a massage. It felt SO DARN GOOD! It gives me some space to actually be still and not DO anything. Usually when I am resting or feeding Sawyer I look on the internet or check e-mail. When I am getting a massage, I just sit (or lie) with my thoughts. I think about things on a different level that I think is good for me. I still have credit from Lance's anniversary gift, so I will be back there soon.
Saturday afternoon we all went to Amma and Papa's and had another very nice time swimming and eating Rudy's BBQ. I felt less stressed with trying to enjoy myself and taking care of Sawyer. I think I take care of him on auto-pilot now. I have it down, its just a matter of executing the motions. Not stressing about it leaves me time to enjoy things around me, like how darn cute my little boys are. Lance took the most adorable pic of them by the fish pond after swimming.
Sunday was also great. It felt like a first Fall Sunday with slightly cooler weather (90 instead of 98), and football! We had a leisurely morning and enjoyed the outdoors for a while. All three boys took long, overlapping naps and Lance and I got to enjoy watching some football. Later, Lance took the older boys out for some errands while I got to watch more tennis. Lance bought Evan a "baby", and as soon as he got home Evan put the baby, who he named "Pinky", to bed. Finally, we capped the weekend off by joining our life group for dinner at Waterloo. I felt good that we were able to manage all boys with fairly little stress. Oh, I almost forgot, smiles from Sawyer make everything better.